In this letter, I want to
focus on thoughts rather than images.
At this point, I am a
little more than halfway through my tertianship experience. I arrived in
Ghana in early January, and will leave
at the beginning of July. (I will spend a couple of weeks in
Europe before returning to
Cleveland in mid July.) My focus right now is on
reading the Jesuit constitutions and history. It still feels rather strange to
spend most of the day in reading, prayer, and classes with my tertian director,
since I am accustomed to very active parish ministry back in
Cleveland. I catch myself thinking, “I should be
doing more.” But then I have to remind myself that that is not
the purpose of tertianship. The purpose of the tertianship is to deepen my
relationship with God in prayer, and deepen my incorporation into the Society
through the Spiritual Exercises, study and discussion. This I believe I am
doing, by the grace of God.
Since I am doing the
tertianship in a different part of the world, I also get a little snapshot of
how people live in
Africa, and how the Society of Jesus attempts to preach the
Gospel and live the Gospel here. Thanks to the efforts of the Gesu office
staff, Don Bechtold, the Kealy’s and others, I also have the privilege of being
able to share some of my experiences with you in word and picture. These
e-mails have made my experience much richer. I have often seen things, heard
things, or experienced things and thought, “I can’t wait to tell my friends
about this, or show them a picture of that.” (I have also had some frustrations
when I didn’t have my camera with me, couldn’t get a good photo of something, or
our internet server was down—a frequent occurrence.)
My experience of
tertianship is unique. Normally, one does tertianship with a group of other
tertians, perhaps from different parts of the world. That did not work out for
me. For various reasons, I ended up being the only tertian in this program.
This is not ideal. On the other hand, I get plenty of individual attention from
my tertian director, and I do like him! And I have not been altogether lacking
in companionship. I live in a community of six Jesuits including myself,
consisting of two Ghanaians, two Nigerians, and two Americans. The age range is
from scholastics in their 20’s to my tertian director who is over 70.
I also get to meet
religious men and women of many different communities who pass through
here—priests, sisters, and brothers from
Ghana, from all over
Africa, from
Europe, the
US and
Australia. I live in a large Catholic
compound that includes not only the Jesuit house, but a much larger Holy Cross
brothers community, including their novitiate. Also in this compound is an
African order of nuns called Our Lady of Angels, and a rehab center run by the
Mercy sisters I think, and a large continuing education facility for religious
called the Institute for Continuing Formation, ICF. ICF is where religious from
all over
Africa come for various programs, which last about three
months or so. We also get a surprising number of people, mostly religious, who
come here for short retreats or just for a few days of R & R.
So you meet quite a variety
of religious people and hear their stories. I am amazed at the dedication of
missionaries who have spent most of their lives here. In my reading of Jesuit
history, I am inspired by the lives of so many heroes, some of them martyrs and
saints. But there are plenty of heroic missionaries in our own day as well. I
want to mention a couple of them, and I don’t even know their surnames. There
is Br. Vincent, a Holy Cross brother here in Brafuyaw, perhaps around age 70.
He is originally from
Grand Rapids,
MI, but he has been in
Africa most of his life. He is affectionately known as
“Uncle.” He has a seemingly miraculous ability to fix almost anything
instantaneously.
Then there is a priest from
the
Netherlands, named Peter, whom I met
only briefly as he passed through here. He too is up in years, and has been
here forever. He has a very gregarious personality, one of those people who can
simply be described as “a character.” He had to go back to
Holland recently because he has some very serious
health issues. His doctor there strongly advised him not to go back here. For
a number of reasons, this is not a part of the world for people who are not in
good health. But his heart is here, and he had to come back. To make matters
worse, he is in a very remote part of the country where there is no running
water, no modern conveniences of any kind.
It can be discouraging to
see some of the signs of poverty here: The open sewers that you see in much of
the
Third World. Children who are very friendly, but are also
desperate enough to have no shame about asking you for money. (I don’t give
them any, because that would cause all sorts of problems.) Many people don’t
get three meals a day. I heard of a family in which each member, including the
children who are old enough, has to go out on his own each day, and find some
food or a little bit of money for him/ herself, just to get one meal.
Until you’ve spent a few
years here like Peter or Vincent and really grown to love it, you can get pretty
homesick. Even African missionaries from the other side of the continent find
it difficult. East Africans will often point out how much cooler and more
pleasant it is where they are from, and how much richer the soil is there. In
fact, everyone I know, black or white, who has been in
Uganda,
Kenya, or
Tanzania describe much of it as a
paradise, if not for the political turmoil.
In a lighter vein, I wanted
to share some of the idiosyncracies of life here. Ghanaians have their own
special handshake. (I am not sure if this is a Ghanaian thing, a West African
thing, or a tribal thing.) At the end of a handshake, to show special affection
or comraderie, you snap fingers with your friend as you release your hands.
That is, you press your middle finger against his/ her middle finger as you let
go of his/her hand, and actually snap each others fingers. (You can try this,
see if you can do it! I am not exactly proficient at this.)
On a similar note, while
the Africa Cup soccer tourney was being played here a couple months ago, they
were selling a lot of souvenirs. In the spirit of the thing, I purchased a
gaudy green, yellow, and red cap, the colors of
Ghana. As young people see me walking
around the neighborhood wearing my
Ghana cap, they will sometimes do a
little “kangaroo hop,” and I will do it back to them, which they seem to enjoy.
This kangaroo hop apparently comes from a popular song, and was adopted by the
Ghana national team as their goal-celebration dance.
Well, I think that is
enough for now. Thank you for your feedback, which I always enjoy.
God bless.